Anyone who knows my family knows that autism is part of our story in many ways. My mom and siblings have dedicated their careers to educating children with autism and helping them and their families access support programs. As a kid, I would spend some summer days helping my mom, an occupational therapist specializing in autism, at her summer pre-school program. She focused on sensory therapies and always had a way of making it fun. While we thought we were just playing in cooking group with adorable preschoolers, her students were touching and tasting new foods and learning how to navigate those uncomfortable feelings of newness. In hindsight, the lesson for me and my siblings was about acceptance and understanding -- something this world needs more of.
It seems like kismet that when my mom remarried, our family grew to include my step-brother Matt who is nonverbal autistic. He's grown now, but I watched him learn to communicate with us using signs and other tools, and how my step-dad Bob anticipated his needs beyond these signs. I watched Matt find peace in the YMCA swimming pool and skiing at Loon Mountain through their adaptive program. Thanks in part to these programs (and of course my parents' commitment to learning how to navigate them), he’s living a fulfilling adult life where he has independence, but also the support he needs. He's our travel buddy, tagging along for Disney and ski trips, and he always seems happiest at the top of the mountain with Jack and Brody.
And finally, my nephew, who has a brilliant mind that is sure to change the world one day. Early diagnosis and intervention were critical for him. yet navigating the world of doctors, diagnosis, IEPs and schooling can be challenging for families. I’m in awe at his parents’ unwavering commitment to ensuring he’s challenged, engaged, accepted, loved. And this marathon will be extra special to me, as I get to run alongside his mom and my sister-in-law, who is my ultimate inspiration and the true definition of a strong woman.
Having a community of support can make all the difference for a person who has autism and their family. The Flutie Foundation is just that, providing people and families with autism the opportunity to live their life to the fullest; not only with financial assistance to life-changing services, but also by creating a beautiful community.
On April 21st, I'll be running 26.2 miles in my hometown city for my family and for all the families who are impacted by autism. I know my fundraising efforts will make a difference in someone's life and I thank you for helping me reach my goal.