When I was 16, I was diagnosed with cancer. I went through surgery, chemo, and months of recovery, all while trying to hold onto my teenage years. I wore a beanie to school not for style, but to cover the bald head that came with treatment. I know firsthand how tough and isolating that journey is—especially at such a transitional age. Not a day goes by that I don’t think about it. It’s a reminder that some hardships don’t just pass—they shape who you are.

When I got to Duke and found out this foundation existed, I knew it would not only allow me to reflect on my own journey but also honor individuals like former student and brother Bobby Menges. I’m fundraising to raise awareness and make a difference for kids and teens going through what I went through—so they feel seen, supported, and maybe even find those moments to laugh, like I did.

When adolescent and young adult (AYA) cancer patients who have completed treatment are asked their biggest concerns, the most common is: "Will I be able to have children?" It’s not the risk for cancer recurrence or disability and disfigurement - the desire to build a family is their highest priority.  In addition to the toxicity of cancer treatments themselves, chronic health conditions can occur in the aftermath of any cancer treatment protocol, and infertility is among the most common long-term complication.

So, it’s unfortunate that in the confusion and deluge of information during a new cancer diagnosis, including staging, testing, treatment and prognosis, the topic of fertility preservation can be set aside or forgotten.   AYA cancer patients report a lack of adequate information to make informed fertility decisions.  Meeting the unique fertility goals of every patient requires appropriate fertility counseling, as well as logistical and financial access to fertility care.

One of I’m Not Done Yet's mission is to provide the resources for AYA cancer patients to preserve their fertility. 

Your support of the Shave & Buzz will help ensure that these young patients have the HOPE that despite having cancer, they can one day have a family of their own.