Every day 117 people in the U.S. die of metastatic breast cancer (MBC), also known as Stage 4, where the breast cancer has spread to other parts of the body. Funding MBC research is the only way to find a cure!
In August of 2023 my extraordinary wife Lisa passed away from Metastatic Breast Cancer. She was 42 years old. While she died far too young, she will always be remembered and lived for. Her story shed light for so many who had never heard of the word "metastatic". We will continue to shed that light, we will continue to live for Lisa. This is her story, in her own words.
ABOUT ME: Florida State Captain and Ambassador for #LightUpMBC
In September of 2020, after two years battling Stage 2B Breast Cancer, my world changed once again. I was informed that my Breast Cancer had spread to my lungs and bones and I was now Stage 4. I was just 39 years old. Searching what all this meant... statistics are heart breaking. Stage 4 Breast Cancer has no cure.
I have a beautiful family. Married 15 years to my best friend Chris and we have two beautiful daughters Jasmine (11) and Janelle (9). At the time of diagnosis, my husband and I decided we were going to be very open about this journey and share updates throughout. My goal was to make everyone aware that we needed more.
Since diagnosed, I have been on different chemo pills to keep my lung mets stable, and keep my bone mets under control. More recently, it did spread to my liver and I am now am on IV Chemo.
The spread from her lungs to her liver and brain was rapid. Fluid continued to rapidly build on her lungs. The first time they were drained it was 750 ml, 2 weeks later 1000 ml. Because of the rapid build up, breathing was becoming more labored. It was decided a catheter could be implanted to assist in regular draining. In addition, she was more and more unable to keep any food or water down. It was a symptom first attributed to fluid build up, but we later learned was more likely the symptom of the cancer spreading to her liver and brain.
Lisa almost died while recovering from the anesthesia. The fact she was younger may have been what helped her fight through. However, while in the hospital, her platelets and blood count continued to fall. The cancer on her liver prevented the counts from rising, the cancer on the brain prevented any nutrients from digesting. After 6 weeks of no treatment, cancer had reached the point current treatments cannot fight.
It was decided to stop the needles, pain, and suffering. We brought Lisa home and 3 days later she passed away surrounded by her family, those from blood and those from friendship.
My first year being diagnosed, I came across #LightUpMBC and we made our way to downtown Orlando to see the Amway light up in teal, pink and green. I knew right then that I needed to be more involved.
I am honored to be the Florida State Captain and look forward to raising awareness and getting the funds needed so there can one day be a cure.
WHAT IS #LightUpMBC ?
The #LightUpMBC campaign is a global initiative aimed at raising awareness and funds for metastatic breast cancer (MBC) research to benefit METAvivor. Held annually in October, the campaign partners with hundreds of iconic landmarks around the world to illuminate in the symbolic MBC awareness colors of green, teal, and pink. By uniting patients, families, and supporters, #LightUpMBC shines a spotlight on the urgent need for more research and resources to improve outcomes for MBC patients.
#LightUpMBC Live is a dynamic virtual event that serves as the centerpiece of the #LightUpMBC campaign, bringing together the metastatic breast cancer (MBC) community and its supporters for an evening of storytelling, inspiration, and impact. Hosted annually on October 13 on Metastatic Breast Cancer Awareness Day, this live-streamed program features powerful stories from MBC patients and their families, musical performances, and appearances by special guests who amplify the mission of raising awareness and funds for MBC research. #LightUpMBC Live provides a platform for education and advocacy, highlighting the urgency of funding scientific breakthroughs for the most advanced stage of breast cancer. For more info on how to watch, get involved, or view the list of participating landmarks, please visit www.LightUpMBC.org
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