Joy. Firecracker. Ms. Personality.
Hailey has spent her fourteen years defying expectations.
When she was 22 months old, a doctor once told us that “years from now, when she begins to show signs of walking,” she would require myriad assistive devices and have limited mobility. As if on cue, Hailey stood up and walked across the room.
“I have no idea how she is doing that,” he said at the time. We wonder what he would say today if he were to see her on stage at her ballet recitals, balancing on one leg with a beaming smile on her face.
He would not be the first medical professional to underestimate Hailey’s potential, and he was far from the last. Having reviewed her rather extensive chart, multiple doctors have openly questioned whether they had the right patient after meeting her for the first time.
Hailey has a unique and complex chromosome abnormality that has led to dozens of diagnoses including sacral agenesis, mitochondrial dysfunction, severe asthma, and epilepsy. She has had more surgeries than we care to count, and it takes a pharmacy’s worth of medication and a delicate schedule of treatments, food, and rest to maintain her health.
You’d think she would get tired of the seemingly endless drill, but Hailey will tell you that she loves being a patient … mostly because it gives her a fantastic opportunity to charm the staff! She brings joy to everyone she meets, and a healthy dose of “teenage sass” to her parents and caregivers.
We have a number of big goals for our children, but our top priority has always been that they have more fun their lives than hospital visits. Hailey’s providers often struggle to keep up with her while swimming at the pool, exploring the zoo, or soaking up the magic at Disney World. We are fierce advocates for her childhood, but Hailey is her own best advocate for independence!
But we could not do it alone. Easter Seals has been a huge part of Hailey’s success story. Her therapists in the Children’s Therapy Program are all creative, loving, and talented professionals. They bring the perfect balance of patience, structure, and playfulness to keep Hailey achieving her goals while having fun. She is truly an Easter Seals success story, and she regularly enthuses about her wonderful providers.
Ever since her toddler days of putting slime in her hair and painting the floor, Hailey has always been an artistic child. With the help of her speech therapists, she has pushed through apraxia and other speech issues and joined a choir. Despite the dismal prognosis from doctors early on who expected her to live much of her life in a wheelchair, her PT sessions have helped her learn to walk and move gracefully, and she is now enjoying spending time with friends in her weekly ballet classes – not to mention daily freestyle dance shows for friends and family. Having worked hard for so many years to read English, she decided she was ready to move on to Spanish. Once Hailey decides to do something, her team just has to figure out ways to support her because she WILL do it!
We are so very blessed to have had such a wonderful support team in our corner for Hailey and her brother, and they have done an amazing job in helping our kids unlock their potential to be a part of the world and experience it with joy. We can’t thank them enough for what they have done for our kids, and can only hope to help pay it forward in any way that we can.
- Hailey’s Parents